Sunday 13 September 2026, 1pm to 2:30pm · London
London: Beginners' Striptease
Entry: Not stated.Book in advanceParticipation: Not stated.
£25Collected automatically on 2 Sep 2026
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Tuesday 15 September 2026, 7pm to 10pm · London
Neon Naked Model Experience
Open to groupsBook in advanceTaking part is optional
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Sunday 4 October 2026, 12pm · London
London Alternative Market
Over 18's Only.Admission: Not stated.Participation: Not stated.
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Saturday 10 October 2026, 11:30am to 1pm · London
Sensual Dance for Ladies
Women, all levelsBook in advanceParticipation: Not stated.
£19Collected automatically on 2 Sep 2026
Saturday 26 September 2026, 6pm to 11pm · London
Women's Speakeasy Soirée
This event is for Women only .Book in advanceParticipation: Not stated.
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Thursday 10 September 2026, 11am to 6pm · West Drayton, Heathrow, London
Silks & Skins Spa Day
Open to couples, solo women, solo menApplication firstParticipation: Not stated.
Not statedCollected automatically on 8 Sep 2026
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Saturday 12 September 2026, 7:30pm to 4am · London
Five Elements
Entry: Not stated.Admission: Not stated.Participation: Not stated.
£27.50 to £45Collected automatically on 3 Sep 2026
Saturday 12 September 2026, 8pm to 3am · Stratford, London, London
Saturday club night
Entry 20+ onlyPay on the doorParticipation: Not stated.
Not statedCollected automatically on 1 Sep 2026
Saturday 12 September 2026, 9pm to 2am · West Drayton, Heathrow, London
Couples & Singles Saturday
Open to couples, solo women, solo menApplication firstParticipation: Not stated.
£14.50 to £50Collected automatically on 8 Sep 2026
Sunday 13 September 2026, 11am to 8pm · West Drayton, Heathrow, London
Back to School Late Summer BBQ
Open to couples, solo women, solo menApplication firstParticipation: Not stated.
Not statedCollected automatically on 8 Sep 2026
Sunday 13 September 2026, 1pm to 6pm · London
Lord Clyde September Daytimer
Open to couples, solo men, solo women, trans visitorsAdmission: Not stated.Participation: Not stated.
£10 to £30Collected automatically on 1 Sep 2026
Sunday 13 September 2026, 1pm to 2:30pm · London
London: Beginners' Striptease
Entry: Not stated.Book in advanceParticipation: Not stated.
£25Collected automatically on 2 Sep 2026
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Open the plain-English glossaryOther Nights covers adult events built around a theme, scene, community, dress concept or programme outside ordinary event culture. That includes costume and cosplay parties, themed club nights, markets, socials, classes, festivals and cruises. Kink, lifestyle, relationship-focused and sex-positive events are part of the same wider catalogue.
This is for people who have had enough of choosing a night by music genre and postcode alone. You might want a reason to dress differently, something to learn, a shared-interest crowd or a format that gives the evening more shape than another standard club or rave.
There are currently 795 upcoming dates in the index across the UK and Europe. Search in ordinary words or use the scene terms you already know. A costume-led event stays costume-led: we do not describe it as sex-positive, kink-friendly or play-permitted unless the organiser does.
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