othernights

Glossary

The plain word comes first; the word the scene uses is in brackets. Both work in search, so you can use whichever you have. If you are completely new, start here instead for the guided version.

Kinds of event

What actually happens on the night.

Club night
Nightlife event led by music, dancing, performances or socialising.
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Cruise
A multi-day voyage where hosted socials, parties or workshops form part of the advertised programme.
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Festival
A multi-session or multi-area programme marketed as a festival.
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Market (fetish market)
Vendors or stalls are a central part of the event.
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Meet-up in an ordinary social venue (munch)
Conversation-led scene meet-up, commonly in a pub or cafe; play is not part of the advertised programme.
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Other event format
The structure is known but no active value covers it.
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Play-focused event (play party)
The advertised programme centres on play spaces or play activity.
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Practical class or workshop
A facilitator leads attendees through exercises or skills.
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Social gathering
Conversation-led gathering that does not meet the narrower munch definition.
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Talk or panel
Attendees mainly listen, watch and ask questions.
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Themes and scenes

The interest or community an event is built around.

Consent and relationships
Consent and relationship education.
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Costume and cosplay
Costume, cosplay or character dress is central to the advertised event. This does not imply sex-positive or play-permitted.
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Couples night (lifestyle)
Lifestyle programming. "swinging" is a search alias only.
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Impact
Impact-focused programme. Inherits kink_bdsm.
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Kink and BDSM (kink/BDSM)
Kink or BDSM subject matter in general.
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Other theme
A known theme no active value covers.
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Power exchange (D/s)
Power-exchange-focused programme. Inherits kink_bdsm.
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Rope (shibari)
Rope-focused programme. Inherits kink_bdsm.
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Sensuality
Sensuality-focused programme.
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Sex-positive
General sex-positive programming with no narrower theme.
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Tantra
Tantra-focused programme.
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Themed night
A named concept shapes the advertised programme, setting or dress beyond an ordinary club night.
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