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From Chat to Connection Social

Social gathering, run by Pleasure Island Parties

  • Wednesday 11 November 2026, 7pm to 10:30pm.
  • London. Venue: Details are available from the organiser.

A Pleasure Island Social with Jessica Parker

Collected automatically on 18 Sep 2026

Who can attend, and what it costs

Who can attend
Not stated. Check with the organiser.
Attending alone
Not stated. Check with the organiser.
Minimum age
Not stated. Check with the organiser.
Typical crowd age
Not stated.
Price
Not stated
Experience needed
Not stated. Check with the organiser.
Play space
Not stated. Check with the organiser.

How entry works

Booking and vetting
Not stated. Check with the organiser.
Membership
No membership needed
ID at the door
Photo ID is checked at the door.
Last entry
Not stated.
Go to the event (opens on the organiser’s own site)

Opens the event on the organiser’s own site. Other Nights lists and links but does not take bookings or sell tickets.

What happens

Wednesday 11 November · 7pm - 10:30pm

Shoreditch / Old Street, London

Arrive from 7pm · Guided welcome from 7:30pm

Venue details will be shared with ticket holders before the event.

From Chat to Connection is a social evening for singles, couples, partners, lovers, mates and dates to meet, mingle, flirt and make new connections with an open-minded crowd.

At around 7:30pm, Jessica will bring everyone together, joined by a few of her trusted guests sharing their own experiences of going from chat to connection at Pleasure Island parties and in sex-positive spaces more generally.

Then we'll get you out of your usual conversations and into some new ones.

Expect simple connection prompts, a little optional guided touch and some very easy ways to get beyond awkward small talk.

Throughout the evening, Jessica will occasionally give you a reason to move around the room, meet someone new or pick up one of our From Chat to Connection cards and see where the conversation takes you.

There'll also be a small guided hand-massage area, hosted by members of the Pleasure Island team, for anyone who fancies opting for a hand massage instead of a handshake.

Talk. Flirt. Meet someone new. Come with someone you already know. See who you gravitate towards - and let the evening unfold.

This is a social event, not a play party.

You don't need to have attended a Pleasure Island party before to join us.

Booking a ticket will also add you to the Jessica Parker and Pleasure Island mailing lists, where you'll hear about Jessica's work, future parties, socials and events. You can unsubscribe at any time.

What to expect

• Short From Chat to Connection welcome with Jessica Parker

• Real perspectives from some of Jessica's trusted guests

• Optional guided connection activities

• From Chat to Connection conversation cards

• Optional guided hand-massage area

• Music and bar throughout the evening

• Plenty of time to meet, mingle and connect

• The Pleasure Island atmosphere in a more social setting

What to wear

Smart, stylish and social - with a touch of sensuality always welcome.

There's no theme and no Pleasure Island party dress code for this one. Wear something you feel good socialising in.

Touch & consent

Some of the optional activities during the evening may involve simple, clothed touch, such as a brief shoulder or hand massage.

Everything is optional.

Always ask before touching someone and listen to their answer. Consent can change at any point. You're equally welcome to enjoy the evening without participating in any touch-based activities.

Self-care. Consent. No pressure.

A few house rules

Please respect the venue, your fellow guests and the atmosphere of the evening.

Consent and personal boundaries apply to every interaction. Anyone whose behaviour affects the safety, comfort or enjoyment of other guests may be asked to leave without refund.

The Pleasure Island team will be around throughout the evening if you need us.

Entry

This event welcomes singles, couples, partners, lovers, mates and dates of all genders and orientations.

Please purchase the appropriate ticket type. Ticket numbers will be managed across categories to help us create a good mix of guests.

18+ only. Please bring photo ID.

Venue details will be shared with ticket holders before the event.

Refunds & transfers

Tickets are non-refundable and cannot be transferred to another member, moved to another event or exchanged for credit. Please purchase thoughtfully.

Dress, arrival and conduct

Dress code
Not stated. Check with the organiser.
Arrival
Not stated.
Leaving early
Not stated.
Phones and recording
Not stated. Check with the organiser.
Consent policy
Not stated. Check with the organiser.
Sexual-health policy
Not stated. Check with the organiser.

These rows describe the organiser’s published policy, not a guarantee by this site.

Accessibility

Accessibility: Not stated. Check with the organiser.

Inclusion

Inclusion: Not stated.

Venue and getting there

Venue: Details are available from the organiser.

Listed area: London. The organiser shares the rest directly.

Part of a series

From Chat to Connection SocialSee all dates and how each one differs

Details on a date’s own page override the series page.

Listing checks and reporting

Collected automatically on 18 Sep 2026.

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